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Rev. Kevin T. Taylor's avatar

Heidi, caregiving can organize enormous portions of a life around response: another person’s needs, appointments, crises, decisions, and changing capacity. Creative practice restores the experience of initiating something, of choosing what begins and giving shape to something that did not exist before you made it. That makes “load-bearing” especially apt; making can preserve a place where the caregiver remains an author of her own life while so much of her attention is necessarily directed elsewhere. I’m grateful you gave that part of caregiving a language spacious enough to include Madeleine’s textiles, Lori-Ann’s colors, your writing, and the documentary you are now learning to make.

Melanie R. Jordan NBC-HWC's avatar

Heidi, I really related to this because I came to realize last Summer that a big part of me was missing by not expressing myself through creativity. For me that's through writing as well.

That study about the connection between "making" and longevity was fascinating.

I've been recognizing this as "doing what makes you happy" in whatever form that is as an important aspect of mental health and longevity. Now I have the science to back up the intuition.

Thanks for this and best of luck with your documentary!

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